Will love find me, or just want to be my friend?

Every1 says that there is always a guy out there 4 u, but so far im just the guys hot best FRIEND. nothing more. ive gone out with these guys, but we break up b/c we r 2 good of friends. i think i need a guy out of my friendship circle. but do i need to look or let it find me? and if it needs to find me...i think it lost its map b/c nothing has happened

Will love find me, or just want to be my friend?
first of all sweety, next time it happens to u, ask the guy if he really likes u, if he feels anything about u... and if his answer is yes, but u guys are 2 good of friends, then let him know that the more they know each other the better, because he knows that before anything u r his friend and u will be there for him in the ups and the downs, and if he knows u at least a lil bit..... he knows u would try to do the best u can to never hurt him, and u r sure he would do the same for u. and second, yees!!! i think u should go out there and find some1... sometimes people come into our lives at the least expecteed minute... but sometimes we just have to go out there and find them, because otherwise we get frustrated and depressed.... not a good feeling. good luck sweety, and that means that u r a really great person to be able to make such really good friends with them boys.
Reply:just a friend
Reply:Hello Meg,


Love is definitely coming your way.


Marriage counselors, Relationship counselors, and


Psychologists specializing in compatibility issues, keep


telling us something that people ARE NOT LISTENING to !!


Mainly, when men and women start as friends, they NEVER


become lovers or marriage partners.!! ........duhh !!.............


So, if you want a boyfriend, lover, husband, DON'T become


friends first. The excitement and thrill quickly fades from a


friendship and it becomes "routine". Flirt, flirt, date, date, and


always be on the lookout for your children's father. Don't just


hang out, because that's what friends do. Act like lovers and


love will find you, OK??
Reply:Let whatever will be will be. Leave it to fate. Sometimes the harder you find the harder to get. Be patient and learn to relax. Meanwhile, enjoy doing things you like and love may find its way to your heart.
Reply:Too good of friends?


That has never happend before!


Are you shure you don't mean girl?
Reply:enjoy the single life while it last


because love sneaks up on you and fast


right now you can come and go with friends or alone


when you with the love of your life you give up throne


He'll say please me, this is what I want to do now


and you adore him until you two say wedding vow


(after that you boss,don't believe me? just ask wife)
Reply:yes there is someone out there for everyone..and like a watched pot never boils...you have to let it find you..relax and be patient..hang out with friends and be yourself and one day you will come face to face with your one-true love..so you meet a few more good friends along the way..at least you will have them to talk to or hang out with while you are awaiting your love..and hey..you will also have some guys to invite to your wedding for all your single friends..lol..


just be patient..patience is key..





best of luck


hope this helps..
Reply:dont try to force love, no matter where you search you will never just find love on purpose.


let MR.RIGHT come to you, be patient


vote me best answer
Reply:Keep looking,or at least stay open to being approached. Men are everywhere, even though it feels like there is a shortage now. Be comfortable with yourself. This comes across as confidence which is attractive in women too. Don't be too available. Date on YOUR terms and when you want to, which may mean putting a potential boyfriend off for a while. If you see a guy you're interested in, feel free to go over and start a conversation. He may be too preoccupied for you to meet otherwise.
Reply:I don't want a girl with so many "guy friends". Because if I am not from "the circle". Your "friends" won't approve of me. So that makes you a waste of time. SORRY.


I've dated girls like you. If I'm not associated with one other person in your circle. We can not have a relationship. All your 'friends' will do is talk sh!t about me, 'cause they don't know me.





You think you're all that. But are you? Or are just what the boys let you think. Inflating your ego, when you haven't earned it.